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22: 3 Secrets to Letting Go of Perfection and Loving Your Remodel
Why Expecting Perfection in Your Remodel Is Making Everything Harder
Let me start with something that might feel uncomfortable to hear:
👉 No remodel is perfect.
👉 Something will go wrong.
👉 And that doesn’t mean your project is failing.
In fact, expecting perfection is one of the biggest reasons homeowners feel overwhelmed, anxious, and exhausted during a remodel.
In this episode of Preparing for Your Home Remodel, I share three mindset shifts that can dramatically reduce stress — even when things don’t go exactly as planned.
Because yes… you can actually enjoy your remodel.
The Truth No One Tells You About Renovations
I used to think that if I just:
Planned well enough
Thought through every detail
Hired the right people
…a remodel could go perfectly.
After years of projects, I realized something important:
✨ Every renovation has hiccups.
✨ Problems don’t mean failure.
✨ Stress comes from being surprised — not from the problem itself.
Once you expect that something will come up, your brain can skip panic mode and move straight into problem-solving.
That mindset alone changes everything.
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Mindset Shift #1: Accept That It’s a Process
Here’s something I want you to repeat to yourself:
“It’s not wrong — it might just not be finished yet.”
During construction:
Cabinet doors may look crooked
Trim may seem incomplete
Details may feel “off”
But many things happen at the very end during finish work.
🔑 Sometimes what feels wrong is simply unfinished.
When you remember that:
You stop catastrophizing
You ask better questions
You stay calm instead of spiraling
And yes — questions are always okay.
Mindset Shift #2: Focus on What Actually Matters
Not every detail deserves your energy.
This is where a priority list becomes your anchor.
Ask yourself:
What affects function the most?
What did I say mattered most at the start?
Will I even notice this in a year?
📝 If it’s not on your priority list, it’s probably not worth stressing over.
This is especially freeing for perfectionists (trust me — I’m one too).
Letting go of the tiny, insignificant details:
Reduces overwhelm
Prevents burnout
Keeps your project moving forward
Mindset Shift #3: Stop Micromanaging Everything
Managing your remodel does not mean controlling every tiny detail.
You can:
Be involved
Advocate for yourself
Ensure things are done correctly
Without:
Nitpicking daily
Blue-taping everything
Expecting perfection from humans who aren’t perfect
If you vetted your contractors well and planned thoroughly:
👉 Trust the process.
👉 Trust your team.
👉 Redirect your energy to what truly matters.
Micromanagement doesn’t prevent mistakes — it creates stress.
What Actually Reduces Remodel Overwhelm
It’s not flawless execution.
It’s:
Expecting bumps
Filtering decisions
Letting go of what doesn’t matter
Staying focused on progress, not perfection
✨ Intentional, confident progress beats perfect every time.
That’s how remodels become manageable — and even enjoyable.
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🎧 Listen to the full episode of Preparing for Your Home Remodel to hear real examples, deeper context, and practical guidance to help you move through your remodel with less stress and more confidence.
Your remodel doesn’t have to be perfect — it just has to move you closer to the home you love. 💛
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